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Dear Friends
One thing that always intrigues
me is how apparently our now 1015 children left
wholly into our care, settle down and accept the
total change in their lives. I sometimes look
at them - individually - and know that they are
content, secure, happy. And yet I cannot help
but wonder. What is going on in their psyche,
in their child's deepest minds? Recently we admitted
in one morning three little ones, two girls, one
boy, from distant towns. All were HIV positive,
one was quite ill, one also had TB - a four year
old who looked two years old. All had lost both
parents; and their grandparents were extremely
poor and could not cope with HIV+ children. Off
these relatives went ort a six hour bus journey
back home. What was going round in the minds of
these little ones, all younger than six? And yet
within 24 hours all were seemingly settled and
content. This no doubt due to the admirable caring
of their new "mothers", and their acceptance,
welcome, by the other children in their new families.
But just how do small children so rapidly adjust
to drastically new circumstances which are going
to be permanent? With us, of course, they are
always loved as individuals. They are never lost
in the crowd whether in the Children's Villages
or in our schools. But even so, there is such
a great need for caring, for constant attention
to their needs, physical or psychological, for
smiles and warmth and genuine affection. This
is their greatest hunger.
Almost at the same time we took
responsibility for a baby girl, six days old,
unwanted and rejected because she was a girl.
We have called her Surya, which means "Sun",
because she was born on Sunday. I looked at this
beautiful baby in the arms of one of our "mothers",
bemused at its tinyness, vulnerability, rejection
so early in life, and its future.
About the same time one of our
little boys, 3, was given for fostering to a fine
couple, upper middle class, unable to have children
of their own. They had visited several times,
so anxious to have a child in their lives to care
for. This little boy has no history except that
after birth he was abandoned in the huge Government
hospital in Madurai. We only know the date of
his birth. So,
Rajan now has his own new mother
and father. For us this is the best solution for
orphaned and abandoned children younger than five.
Despite the fact that our four
Children's Villages are, according to our standards
of seven children in a family, practically full
up we have to admit such children. And this is
a constant phenomenon. Where else would such children
go? Who else will welcome HIV+ children and new-born
babies? With us each new arrival is considered
to be yet another Jesus coming to us asking us
to take care of Him.
Cordially yours, Brother
James - President, RTU
In
December, we introduced Mr Gomathymurugan, who
is Director of RTU. Here he gives some news of
very recent developments:
The children in our Children's
Villages graduate to our Hostels once they are
capable of caring for themselves (around 13+).
This gives a better atmosphere for them to live
with their peer groups and it is convenient for
us to focus on their age-related needs. Above
15 years they currently go away to study at different
residential schools. We plan to upgrade our High
School this year from 1O~" to it standard
(for our girls) where they will gain 2 more years'
maturity.
We plan to accommodate all fifty
11th standard girls in a new girls' hostel: our
existing 2 girls' hostels are overcrowded. After
detailed deliberation we did 'Boomi Pooja' (blessing
of the land) in January at our Sirumalar Children's
Village campus for a new 'Josephine Girls Hostel'.
This includes two living rooms and a separate
dining room, quarters for a warden, toilets and
bathrooms. This hostel will bear the name of our
long time well-wisher Josephine Cassidy. She loves
to spend time with these girls. The construction
is going on quickly. By June this hostel will
be occupied by our girls, and they will continue
their education in our St. Peter's Higher Secondary
School.
With warm regards, Gomathymurugan
- Director, RTU
Many
of you will remember that two trustees of RTU-UK,
David and Jo Cassidy, are long-time friends of
Brother James, & have told us before of their
experiences & impressions of RTU in India.
In January they made a personal visit, and have
provided some reflections for the Newsletter.
We came out of the airport at
Chennai, having spent what seemed like ages getting
through immigration, to be greeted by a milling
crowd of people, all waving placards with various
names on, and a cacophony of noise from car horns,
motor cycle hooters, and people shouting, and
all this at 2 in the morning! We were back in
India! Later that same day we flew down to Madurai
to be met by Brother James with the jeep and from
there we were transported to RTU, to be greeted
by an excited crowd of mothers and children who
escorted us to our accommodation in Anbu Illam
(the first of the children's villages) which would
be our home for the next 2 weeks.
This was our first visit to the
new Children's Village of Sirumalar, which is
specifically for those children who have been
affected by AIDS - either they are orphans because
both parents have died or they are HIV+ themselves.
There are now 67 HIV+ children and 340 AIDS orphans.
In the two weeks after our return home another
3 HIV+ children have been admitted, and so it
goes on - a terrible legacy for these little ones.
On a brighter note, we were privileged to be able
to hear mass there on Saturday night, said by
Father Antony Paulsamy, a Franciscan priest, and
an old boy of Brother James from his days at Boys'
Town. In fact as Father Antony is resident at
Anbu Illam for the time being, he says mass every
morning at 6am in the beautiful new chapel in
Sirumalar, and during the day helps out by teaching
English in one of the RTU schools.
On the first Tuesday of our visit
we were privileged to be invited to a reception
at St Joseph's Boys' Village for the De La Salle
Superiors from South East Asia, who were in India
to discuss the future of the Brothers in those
countries. We were able to renew our acquaintance
with Brother Mark Murphy and also met other Brothers
who we knew by name but had not previously met.
We visited Jeevan Jyothi Hospice,
not far from RTU's home base, which is run by
the Presentation Sisters, for HIV+ adults and
children, and where 7 of the most poorly of the
HIV+ children from Sirumalar are being looked
after at the moment. The sisters' devotion and
care for these most desperately ill people shines
through all they do, and it was a privilege to
be able to visit them again.
On 26th January we were guests
at the Republic Day celebration where, together
with Brother James and his Director, Mr Gomathymurugan
(who introduced himself to you in the December
Newsletter) we took the salute from the children
as they marched past, and after that the children
from all the RTU schools put on a scintillating
display of cultural dances and exercises. That
weekend we went to the furthest Children's Village
at Bodi (some 30km from the RTU base), and then
on to the nearby Nirmala Primary School where,
after being noisily greeted by a team of drummers
from Michael's Boys' Hostel we were invited to
view all the classrooms and be entertained by
the children.
The following week we were able
to see the newly extended St Peter's High School.
Our visit coincided with examination time so we
couldn't talk to the pupils. Some were in the
classrooms - one to every other desk - while others
were spaced out and overseen in the corridors.
The light and airy two storey building has 10
classrooms and shares a meeting hall and playground
with the Middle School area. 10 paces from the
school two brand new laboratories have been built
and very well equipped so that the High School
is recognised by the education authority. The
plan is to cater for girls over 16 beginning in
June 2007. The school is well staffed by professional
teachers of a high standard. It was a joy to visit.
One of the highlights of our stay
was a visit to a Dalit village about 10 miles
from RTU, where they are replacing poor village
houses. We thought we were just going to see the
new houses but on our arrival we were greeted
by all the village people including the children,
who had been given a day off school especially
for the occasion. Dalits used to be called 'Untouchables'
or 'outcastes', are at the lowest level in Indian
society, and are always to be found pushed outside
to the outskirts of a village or totally separated.
In spite of their poverty they gave us a wonderful
welcome and put on a cultural show of song and
dance for us, which lasted all of an hour.
Wherever we were during our visit,
witnessing the work in the villages, and the outreach,
and throughout the whole of RTU, we were very
conscious that so much of this would never have
happened without the caring, the love and generosity
of all you who will read this. The work would
be unable to flourish as it does today without
your continued support. You are truly a living
part of RTU in India, for which our profound thanks.
ln spite of this being our seventh
visit to RTU and staying at Anbu Illam - 'Place
of peace and love' - we are still always conscious
of how Brother hates to say goodbye. As we drove
away, I looked through the rear window knowing
that I would see the departing figure of Brother
who immediately turns away to renew himself in
the job which lies ahead. Our thanks, thoughts
and prayers are with him and all those who work
for the poor at RTU.
David and Jo Cassidy - Trustees,
RTU (UK).
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